We are all different. There's supposed to be 'weirdos' in church. Each one of us is a 'weirdo' to someone else. If a group of ten people were to share their thoughts on John 3:16, we would get ten different interpretations. It is only with God's help that we understand anything. We are all different with different perspectives. We are able to discern God's word and His voice by His power. For example, there are supposed to be both Calvinists and Armenians in the Church. (It is because God is so far beyond our understanding for us to truly understand Him.) We must learn to love one another in our differences. We are supposed to humble ourselves - together - to seek His face - together.